My personal definition of premature ejaculation is extremely basic.

Masters and Johnson define premature ejaculation as the condition where a man ejaculates before his sex partner achieves orgasm, in more than fifty percent of their sexual encounters. It is immediately apparent, to us who have suffered from the problem, how ineffective this definition is, and how it clearly misses the point by avoiding to define the real problem. The problem is that lasting 1 minute is impossible and often intercourse lasts only a few seconds.. They have completely missed the point.

One of the causes of premature ejaculation accepted amongst sex therapists is that as young men we have got used to ejaculating in a hurry for fear of being caught while masturbating. This is an absurd idea that shows the gap in understanding between sex therapists and their patients. The lack of a proper definition to premature ejaculation, and the lack of a cause and effect analysis of the problem are the starting points in my book. Actually, I publish my definition right here in my website. It is as follows:

Why do we (men) enjoy sex? (i) because it relieves us from a physical requirement or “need” of sex regularly felt both in the mind and in the genitals and (ii) because we like to enjoy sex together and see our partner enjoy it and feel satisfied from us. Since the first is a physical requirement it can be considered more pressing than the second point.

On the basis of this I personally define premature ejaculation as being when a man suffers from a problem that ensures that the first sexual requirement is met without managing to address the second requirement. In other words premature ejaculation occurs when a man has sex to relieve himself from sexual desire without attempting, or managing, to please his partner or himself. This is not a statement about our conscious desires or about any lack of effort on our behalf. It is simply what is happening at a physical level.

Premature ejaculation does not happen because a man gets too aroused, or because he has got used to masturbating quickly. It happens when the genitals, prostate and other organs in the body are not strong enough to withstand sex. Sex is stressful to the body and your body may opt not to put up with it, but without losing the possibility of reproduction. Think about it: If a man has the opportunity of sex but his body is not capable of withstanding sexual intercourse, then premature ejaculation would at least give the man a possibility of reproduction and would fulfill his first requirement of sex. That's not a bad deal for someone who is nearly impotent.

More than 70% of Premature Ejaculation sufferers believe that it is due to a psychological state

Premature ejaculation is a sexual dysfunction nearly always caused by a physiological situation. However most premature ejaculation sufferers believe there is a psychological cause (70% according to a recent survey). The approach taken in my book is to understand that premature ejaculation is a sexual dysfunction caused by the inability of the reproductive system to withstand sex. From a certain point of view it is like being slightly impotent. However there are 2 reasons why it is commonly believed to be a psychological problem: (1) because during sex we feel that we are exploding with pleasure and cannot control ourselves, but actually this is caused by a physiological situation in our genitals, and (2) because our mind cannot explain the sudden change in physical performance without observing an equivalent change in physical characteristics, in other words nothing has happened to our body to justify this change. But it has. We simply did not notice it. The most common reason is that we are continually aging all over, and certain activities, like sex, require an overall well-being of the body. When this is no longer the case some functions of the body have to start compensating for others that cannot live up to their function, and this is not very sustainable. One day your body will find a way to reduce the stress it is being subject to. This is at the root of the problem of most premature ejaculation sufferers.

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My book: Premature Ejaculation Treated. Last Longer and Stronger in bed

Starting from a correct definition of the problem, my e-book takes the reader through a self-diagnosis based on common sense and rationality. Several problems are at play and each reader has to understand to what extent each of these are contributing to their own situation.

Excercises are at the heart of the programme to cure from premature ejaculation. These exercises are aimed at strengthening your sexuality to reduce the stress, and at balancing and harmonising the sensations that you feel in order to increase your control and your equilibrium with regards to sexual stimulus.

My book also touches on the use of some well-known herbal supplements that are safe to take and easy to obtain over the counter. They have been used by ancient cultures around the world for thousands of years and are not commercial, medicinal products.

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By buying this book you will be accepting to follow instructions to cure your premature ejaculation problem. It will require you to do some excercises and to take some natural supplements. You will ultimately decide on the type and quantity of exercises and supplements to take. You will be suprised at the results achieved in a matter of weeks. However you will have to sustain the exercises for the rest of your life. If you do not achieve satisfactory results after 6 months of purchase of this book, if you have followed the program, then you will be fully reimbursed.

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